Development of emotional intelligence of a child. Emotional child's intelligence. Correct that іgri

Hello, dear friends, readers and guests. Today I want to look at the theme "emotional intelligence in children". Ostannіm hour won more and more tsіkavit batkіv, і, yak on me, not free. Infected an excess of information about those who develop the pinky intellect of the child from the pelvis. There is a wide array of early development techniques, as well as free authoring courses, training programs on a tsyu topic. About the emotional intelligence, the part of the fathers does not know practically nothing, the very term itself was deprived of it in the 90s of the last century.

However, emotional intelligence in children is more important to develop, but not an unfortunate IQ. It is also a phenomenon, as it includes the mind of development, intelligence and cheruvati with powerful emotions and the emotions of quiet people, with whom they are connected.

Marveling at the news of the forehead generation, you can beat up, but the whole lot of emots went on good and bad. If you are happy, hesitate, and if you feel happy, you are good, then placards, get angry and fearful. Seeing such a wickedness, I wonderfully bach all the middle of my family. I allow you to cry, get angry, stomp your feet and shout, I don’t bother with anything nasty in the fact that I’ve seen my dissatisfaction and I’m not satisfied, but I don’t want to be afraid. At this very hour, the old woman, the teacher for the sake of the sanctuary, can easily tell about those who do not wear posters, you cannot scream and become overwhelmed, but you can be afraid, for example, of splintering, you can deprive you of the fools.

Why is it so important to develop as an intellectual and creative child's health, and yet it is necessary to come an hour to develop child's emotions? It’s worthwhile to take that hard graph of the introduction of the gurts, the sections and the school of early development to the whole life of the child, not spending an hour on the soulful pink and the “foolishness” of the daddy. Plot-role play, self-reliance, caution and analysis are even more important for the quick formulation and development of emotional children.

Deyaky doslidzhennya show, but emotional intellect of tying also from the building people will feel happy. Children with the development of a mobile intelligence may have a greater self-assessment, they smell in their own, quickly adapt to new circumstances, see the correct rules of behavior in a suspension, the one who has time to get popular The smarter stench is more effective in dealing with confusing situations and appearing less anxious.

The development of emotional intelligence in such a way, as it is, can be done from the very people of the baby. Ale, zychayno, varto vrahovuvati vіk ditini and start the development of emotsіy. Preschool and young school age will be the most pleasant periods for those who are better able to take from children. At the very same hour, the child will fully appreciate the self-confidence, the intelligence of the minds of those people, and the mindset of the assistant manager and the vrahovuvati will feel the need for the comforting people.

How to develop emotional intelligence in children?

Found an accessible zasib - tse, mabut, reading books. Through the living of Kazkov's situations, through the negotiation of notification, through the explanation of the behavior of that character, children know about the different situations and the reverence of the heroes. Smell you can tell the different points of view of the characters on that very situation, as well as books you can write about the child's mother and may be simpler to use your senses and words.

Spіlkuvannya and іgry with інshi children. Gradually help the child to relax, and also to see all the senses, as soon as you see. For now, don't imprint on a child that does not control behavior. At tsei hour the child will show her reference "I".

In order to prick a child, at the same time, it is necessary to attract a child to the household right, go to the shops at once, push a self-contained vibration when buying products, or for a saint.

Sit with the child, talk over the past day, allow yourself to be with your own mother, give the ability to show your individuality. Create a comfortable situation, so that the child does not get frustrated by her enemies and the experiences of her day.

Be a looker for your child. Show acceptable behavior models in everyday life situations. Accept the principles.

Vchora Vita, my fourth-born little girl, was painting a picture of bagatikh color figurines, and she said that she should be called "Labyrinth for Happiness". Mystery of the child is a labyrinth, and one of the main helpers on the way is the emotional intelligence.

EQ is the basis of a positive message, the foundation of a successful life and special happiness. It is also so important to develop it. The mindfulness of the emotions, the recognition of the sentiment, consider that the motivation of those who will feel more possibilities, not allowing them to give up at the folding situation.

Tilki tim, scho bacish, you can keruvati. I apologize EQ so the power of the keruvati is not deprived of the power of the worries, but of the more desperate.

Children marvel at light through the prism of emotions. For a child, we are slightly apologetic EQ, failure becomes a special tragedy that is driven by a drive. And the emotionally stable child is aware of the friendliness and chuinism, the finesse of his powers and the calmness, the focus on the result. He can become a successful diplomat or a business man who loves a cholovik that happy dad.

Women of the Emotion are more educated, less people. A little girl from her early childhood to learn from the spirit, the chuiness and the sentiment. Skin gras in lyalki allow you to show yourself a squad, that mother's daughter.

EQ development techniques for older adults and children

It is not so important for whom we are new children, for those who are showing off with butts. Having a nice butt - the price of being happy.

1. Box of emotsiy

Put your box of happiness into your brownie. She has everything to "store" everything that is associated with you from happiness visually, by ear, relish, scent and dots. And then open the same box at once with your child, discussing in detail with her її emotsії. Butt:

  • Zir: the child's smile is happy.
  • Hearing: the noise of the seaweed.
  • Relish: Licorice half moon.
  • Smell: aroma to the wood from the board.
  • Dotik: lots of kohan people.

2. Mova emotsiy

In addition, you should not only go to the powerhouses, but let them feel better for you. Also, spіlkuvannya with a partner, colleagues, and especially with a child is the basis of intercourse in the family on robots. For the whole, enter in your promov the formula: "I see ... to that ..., I wanted to ...".

On the butt of spilkuvannya with a child, the formula can sound like this: “I am exhausted when I pour water with farbs. I would like to be respected. And let's save it all at once ”.

3. What am I seeing this year?

The essence of the mushroom is that the little girl herself chose the emoji of the current day. "I saw the joy of the year (sum, price, aggression ...), if ...". For the sake of all, open up all the emoticons of the beloved character of the child, like the wine and the vibe for the meaningful experience of yours. To grasp the knowledge and accept the power of the senses.

4. Emotional photo album-podoroz

Tsikavo fotografuvati is not deprived of the style "I am that memory". Try the robustness of emoji photo cards: “Ah! Qia palma yak a magnificent cactus - treba yogo squashtuvati "," Vezha does not fall ?! "," Zhuuuuk! "

Turn, such photographs are even more acceptable to look at all over the homeland. And then they can work out about the rise in price. Rozdrukovuyte a few photos, change and set the new history of your trip.

5. Emotions at Farbakh

You can create your gallery of emotsiy, de kozhna picture - a tsemotsiyya, twisted by those farbs that composition, yaku vibiraє ditin. It’s even great to be small at once, and in some cases, they took away joy, sum, and malice.

6. Compass emotsiy

It’s unique gras, as it’s not out of place to know the child with the emots, but I’ll show you, as you feel the people in the situation. The essence of the gri: I will remove the skin from a set of 8 cards: joy, fear, interest, natchnennya, sumnіv, podiv, dovira, gnіv. The list can be updated.

The enigmatic grave sees the word-witness-the situation, and vibrates to it all the way to the emotion, the wicked card in the close-up. Rashta gravts_v maє vgadati: yaku emotsіyu wiklikє a situation is envisioned by the gravets.

For example, mother can vibrate the card "joy" for the understanding "1 heather", and the daughter - "fear". Children should be able to speak well about their emotions. And the stench has a stink.

Don't forget about reading books and good music. Price of unstable resources for self-awareness, feeling that all the light.

About the expert

One of the most fashionable topics, such as turbulent happy fathers, is the development of emotional intelligence among children. Even earlier, on the little maidanchiks, mamy was one with one drive of the one who was in the child’s childishly read in three rocks, or count the square root, then the seodn’s fathers are more sickly, who’s spirited children. First of all, there is a response from a trivia on the face of a tat.

Books are overwhelmed with users for the development of emotional intelligence, on Youtube there are free video tutorials, kids clubs and promotions of special busy and trainings. Tim for an hour of expertise, how to negotiate the profession of the future, vvazayut, but one of the key navichki, demanded on the market of good rockets in five or ten, will become the state of the people to recognize their own and foreign ones and them.

On one side, the theme of emotional intelligence has already been commercialized, only the lines aren’t looking for any earnings, and on the other side, the importance of developing the social sphere in the young generation of life

In Bagatioh regions of the world, a collection of just "fashionable theme" has already become part of the sovereign policy. For example, Finland has a national program for preschool education and looking after the children of the early age. Little child in a child's cage is not guilty of reading and reading and writing. Before you, you need to become a child. Therefore, for a skinny baby, an individual development plan is prescribed, within the framework of which preschool child spillover with his fathers and teachers take care of the fate of the Vistavs, vivchaє the light of nature, little fears, like a trap, and then promoted to grow up. With a whole lot of childish performances, it’s not a Russian childish tradition, because of a jagged roll, like a demand to see a beat in front of two dozen switch-ons of Batky’s smartphones, because they know the video of a saint. Finland's children's performances are full of performances for children, the stench could see the characters of the heroes, and at the same time, its own power.

At the Korean children's cages, teachers lead the schoolboy of the child's age and constantly organize the children with their fathers, to help the children learn problems spirally, to help them out. Program the development of emotional intelligence will become part of the educational programs at schools in Europe and the USA.

Russian conservative education system. For example, our history lessons are more focused on the memory of dates and terms, and most often are not discussed by the schoolchildren, who have seen and experienced the lesson of this lesson, from the French, from the work.

If you help the child go to the lesson about Krymska in the reform of Peter I, ask for a message, if you write a message in the social scale from the name of the boyar's participant, and the boyar was depicted as "in such a way" that people experience.

Three of their students are special in the totalitarian regime of intelligence through the "Kolimska Announcement" by Varlam Shalamov, "To the Same Temryav" by Arthur Koestler, "1984" by George Orwell, more than those who have reached the generation of visuals. Do not smell the stench of old people. Alone, the stink of the sound and the memory is, then those, which did not overflow them with baiduzhim, could have been victorious in them. And then later we go to the Gulag Museum, devilishly know from the schoolchildren and videos of the participants in tragic events.

I often go from children to Mystetsky galleries. I am not looking forward to delighting in the flood of European museums and galleries, memorized by children, as they sit in front of pictures from notebooks and olives, perhaps to paint, perhaps to discuss with a teacher. Moskva has recently had this practice. If you go into the hall, for example, a bitter mystery, go in, but you don’t know anything and don’t know. I have such a practice as an eight-sided daughter. In Brussels, we went to the Magritt Museum, and there she explained to me the size of a skin picture, how the author wanted to say and how worried. Then you can go to the classics, for example Bruegel, and ask the child to tell you about the busyness and the age of your peers at Serednyovichch.

At the writing girl Irmgard Koyne, a miraculous book "Little girl, they were not allowed to drive for some children." It’s, obviously, not a nice butt for a pedagogical victorian, even for children in principle, it’s impossible to play. But it is possible to say for sure, then those who are in some mystery can help you to get to the child there, if you are not going to be.

Maria Sluchaєva
Emotional intelligence. What is it? What do you need to develop from a child?

All our life is an uninterrupted stream of stress, pod_y, rozmov, conflict, rozcharuvan and hostility. Mi shokhvili is experienced. Ale the intelligence of the nature of the cich, the experience of the buvak is easy to navigate to the mature, but about the children.

Most often harmonious development of a child pereshkojaє emotional instability... The axis of what is important to immediately guide the child to get out with his own emotsiyami: do not strangle them, but be friends with them. Meet the cheruvati with your nepotism, mind the cause of sadness, more beautifully co-ordinate with desperate people, so that you can stand up mickey, happy people. All the same and become those who see emotional intelligence.

Emotional Intelligence- the minds of their own and strangers emotsiy, I felt that experience for an effective and harmonious relationship with new light, as well as the health of cheruvati emotions and emotionsінshih people with the introduction of practical buildings.

Promotion of emotional intelligence bezpossredno tied with communal development. Ditina, as you can see your emojiі cheruvati with them are easier to contact with those who feel comfortable, and people who want to feel better are more nicely put to the new.

Preparing for school emoji also play a great role. Smell to straighten out that organizuyut to receive, respect, memory, misinterpret, awaken uvu, stimulate creativity for the understanding of action. Emotions vikonuyut motivuyuchu role, being a preschool child a free starting mechanism. Ditina, she is very positive, positive, emotional, emotional, badiora, active, supple and optimistic.

The presenters stood up, but close to 80% of the success in social and special spheres of life is the beginning of the rivn development of mobile intelligence, if less than 20% - all types of IQ - efficiency intelektu, scho vimіryu steps of the rosy health of people Yak development of an emotional intelligence at a child, what is necessary for a person who wants to be victorious from his robot?

For development of a mobile intelligence needs to develop with a child:

1. Self-confidence (I will arrange "psychological" for myself);

Your children are guilty of the nobility, as they call them emoji... It is important for tshob that we played yak їkh emotional guide... As soon as you sound like your own ( by the way: “I see the joy, that all the family spent so well the whole family, and I wanted to, then all the visits were carried out at once”, which is becoming the norm. Todi and child will be easy to understand emoji: "I see the image and the sum, but I do not let the little ones go into the picture, I wish I tried harder." "I see ... to that ...".

Key component emotional intelligence є empathy... The soundness of the minds of the others. Power up your children: how are you thinking, how are you happy? Win happy chi sumny, grasping? Yak you think, when you see that babe in the park if you shove? Be the role model for your children: let me give you a bunch of people, how to talk about them, how good it is to see the spice, intuition, the point on the mind of the one, the point of view. As soon as the children are going to bachiti your behavior, then the giblets of the stench will take over from you the cinnamon navichki, and you will not be able to understand it.

Zrile spilkuvannya, if ditina to get into the memory of empathy and negotiate your own authority.

One of the ways development of emotional intelligence - kazkotherapy... For the help of the Kazka ditina To learn to do a little life of life, to learn how to get to life. ЄA single Kazkov story of an additional aidє kids to formulate a whole lot of social life. Win unaware of the association with the main characters of the history and the transfer of the life of the host. A good book, it was written specially for ditina nagging friendship with your own emotsiyami -“Monciki. Sho take emoji How can I be friends with them?.

It's a book to read spilkuvatisya, friendliness, intelligence to oneself and to the aid of kind-hearted people. Together with them you can learn about emotsiyami to know the way out of the folding situation, you can see how all your information is available and how to master a lot of those little brown tips.

Developing Emotional Intelligence child, mi development and self-control(Hello, fit in with your senses, bazhans);

Perche s what is needed put your robot over emotsiyami- tse accept that fact: шо all emoji See and all you need. Є Seemingly, whatever you want laugh: joy, lack, pride, happiness From the old age shit: fear, aggressiveness, image, guilt. Help a child opanuvati algorithm:

1. Make your own mind emotsiyu;

2. Accept її. Do not crush Chi, do not see. Honestly to date all the middle to see;

3. Intelligence, which you see with respect;

4. Take a decision, like visloviti and almost socially acceptable way.

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Consultation for teachers "Well-being according to the valley, or it is more necessary to develop other hand motor skills" Ditina - the istotal social and the smartest, who stand in front of us (the daddy and the people who are in contact with the child) - vikhovati harmoniously.

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Comunicable, serviceable, optimistic ... There are a lot of qualities, such as frightening a child, and, moreover, a growing layer, who is so successful. It is possible to come to the cichus of yokes in any vіtsі, a little more beautifully to see the robot over itself from an early childhood, but the correct behavior has steadily gone down to the sound. The establishment of the development of mobile intelligence, which does not reach the same level of importance.

Emotional intelligence - what?

Earlier, I vvazhala, for the achievement of success, sufficient development of the high IQ performance and knowledge. Today we see that for a new recruitment the necessary emotional intelligence, which can be stored from:

  • singing in sob
  • knowledge of the Vlasnyh perevag ta obmezhen
  • readiness to accept wiklik
  • good health and fitness.

People with a high EQ (Emotional Intelligence Quotient) are easier to live with - as many times as possible, it is much wider to ask for help, some of the stench is easy to find confusion. At the school, at the working place, such people are more sympathetic, it is easy to wade through the mountain with the help of their meetings and go to their world. The apology of the emotional intelligence, the price of thinking about being a human being, pushing the thought of those who fit in with negative impulses.

Yak development of emotional intelligence in children

The child is guilty of the nobility for three rockies, but she has no right to beat her, she won’t be able to deceive her as far as she can to physical strength. Krym kurkuliv, lily slavs chi іteriki, іsnuyut more arguments, for example, calm and hardness. Come to the minds of those who need it, because they are necessary in any situation. Ditina knows everything for her help and persh for all the fathers.

Longer may it show to the child, how good it is disgusting, how it is possible to allow it, and it is not possible. The rules of permissible behavior and behavior will happen again and again for the first time, for the first time for the little one to learn. In addition, the rules will be used in one-page suspensions, but do not try too much. Dytina 2-3 years old is still not good enough to be played with children and not to be satisfied with everyone, it is reasonable to come to five rockets, as well as viciously, to adapt the development of this button.

For example, to serve you, to that be last. It is not strictly permissible to formulate it, just behave like this, as you vvazhaet for the demand. If the child screams, say - “I don’t smell you, if you cry, speak calmly”, for the hour is ochikuvannya - “I’m calmly cheekaєmo in my own house”. Sposter for you, baby, to establish rules for himself independently and slowly.

The day is really good, if you have to repent from the “good wound” and all the hour you can feel the hearing “dyakuyu”, “vibachte”, “be affectionate”. It's our shy hour to see more and more in the past, and to be intertwined with woeful "hello". Let the little one learn the charming words yaknaychastishe - shanobliness, it is necessary to get rid of it. Nayzhorstokіshim grow up to children, who have problems from self-help.

Stand up to the little one with reason, appreciate it, do not belittle not a word, not a thing. Allow yourself to accept the decision independently (in the clearest boundaries) and do not stop the assault - a child, as you can feel the belittling of the people. Evaluate the successes and ensure the comfort of the bad luck. The development of the emotional intelligence of the ill-minded without the training, the following description is given of the best expansion of the situation on the child Maidan and the ways of the broadcast.

Garnoy Behavior Lessons

Є Situations, such as to formulate the problem of wickedness. There are a number of reasons that can be seen.

1. Consider going with goydals

Having leaned on a childish Maidan, say clearly what is it for all children. If the situation is all the same, send the baby - “after having ridden, now don't let the little girl go for a ride, but then there.” Children who want to ride a goydalk or a bicycle through a small age can easily disclose a mystery to a compromise.

2. Ditina doesn’t want to be happy

Malyuk is jealous of being put up to such an idea and how is it from their own games? Most of the children are not judgmental, which needs to be extended from kimos. To replace the fact that you should change your thoughts, you should think about it. As soon as you check the little guest, grab your beloved little ones and fill them up, as the child is ready to propose for a sleeping gree.

3. Malyuk wants to be in the center of Uvagi

Good, he’s ambitious, and he don’t want to sit in the codend, but such behavior can cause problems. Appreciate the qiu rice character, ale to explain, who also write. For the demand, set the order of appearance: "and now listen to Anya." The deyaky teachers are victorious to play this trick - like that child who has a ball in her hands. The ball is passed on to the stake and it is caught by the skin.

4. Condemnation

The development of the child's intellectual intelligence is repaired, as you have already read it, with a special butt. See all the sounds of the zasudzhuvati people behind your back. If you want to brutalize respect for the filthy diyu, it would seem like this: "vikinuti papyrets abiyak - trash vchinok." Put the people on the pardon, do not stick around її specialness.

Inodi, children seem to be inappropriate for the words "you don't like me", "you are stupid / ugly / ugly" and the food on the wall is "what kind of vusa". It’s more painful to hurt people and belittle people. Explain that it is not possible to comment on the call. Yaksho ditina would like to feed you, don't give it to me quietly.

Give the intelligence, that all people see, and the callous viglyad, for those mercy, you cannot characterize a person as a bastard, or good. Read Kazki on a qiu theme, for example, "Beauty and the Wonderful" or "Donkey Skin".

Besides, if you are so kind as you will honor the culture and traditions of different peoples, the knowledge of the history of the world is lost. Tsikavi facts about the country and the people, you know about our new project just about tourism .

5. Ditina nav'yazu my thought

Win a lot of people, who are ready to get used to and image, as one-year-olds will not stay with the rules. Zahochochite child sp_vpratsyuvati z іnshimi, be a member of the command, and not a member of the group. Demonstrate the passes as you come from a sleeping robot. Razkazhіt іstorії about people who have met Zusilla for the sake of reaching the spіlnoї meti. Beastly respectful, if your ideas do not appear to be tricky for people who feel comfortable.

The development of an emotional intelligence, a folding process that is trivial. In less than an hour, I will be without patience, the first young student will successfully create "sleep". If you go to the top at once, then immediately remember that the light is changing around you - it is more correct to place the life of the child and father to the new situations.

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